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I was just reflecting on the series this year and does anybody else think alot of the shipwreckers have had a hard time this year. Thinking of Benneditta, Kevin, Adam, Liam, Hermionie, Tom and particularly Dan. He is my favourite so I am completely bias but I think he has had a rough time. He is probably one of the only new arrivals that loved one island and hated the other. None of the tigers made an effort with him, and 2 weeks before the end he gets stolen to go back there. He is deffo one of the most loyal sharks and to me represents what Shark island is all about. Still, throughout it all, he is always smiling and laughing. To me Dan is a very strong character and seems to have really embraced this experience even though in my opinion he has had one of the hardest times. Fingers crossed for him next week.
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Quote from: sharksno1 on May 4, 2009, 15:09
I was just reflecting on the series this year and does anybody else think alot of the shipwreckers have had a hard time this year. Thinking of Benneditta, Kevin, Adam, Liam, Hermionie, Tom and particularly Dan. He is my favourite so I am completely bias but I think he has had a rough time. He is probably one of the only new arrivals that loved one island and hated the other. None of the tigers made an effort with him, and 2 weeks before the end he gets stolen to go back there. He is deffo one of the most loyal sharks and to me represents what Shark island is all about. Still, throughout it all, he is always smiling and laughing. To me Dan is a very strong character and seems to have really embraced this experience even though in my opinion he has had one of the hardest times. Fingers crossed for him next week.
I don't think Dan had a hard time at all. He got on with all the Sharks and had really good friendships with Lois and Mark. He also had Xanthi. He may be having a hard time on tigers though, as I suspect some of the A males may be a bit homophobic (although judging by a recent cover shot from attitude magazine) - not that homophobic to earn a bit of cash.
He also has Adam and Doug on tigers to keep him company.
I think Doug, Andrew and Naj and perhaps Beni had a far harder time as they did not have many friends there.
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Yeh, thats why I think he has had a hard time. He looked like he had some very good friends on Shark island and spent alot of time with a few individuals, but now he is stuck with the tigers 2 weeks before the end. I know Liam has been banished, but if he made an effort, he could have probly got on with a few of the tigers. Mackenzie did say that they wanted to make him feel really welcome. Dan on the other hand, was stuck on tigers and seems very different from alot of the people. Adam still had Holly and as a new arrival he said that he had a great time on both islands. Watching last week, the Tigers were all in the sea and Dan had to make his own way there. No one seemed to make an effort with him, but he still remains upbeat. Maybe I am letting my love for Dan blind me haha, but I do think hes had a raw deal.
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I kind of agree Sharksno1 alot of the new arrivals are torn (or at least claim to be) Dan just didnt seem to fit in on Tigers at all and there was never any doubt over which island he wanted to pick at beach party. So it is unfortunate he was chosen to go to Tigers and not a Shark who had got on well over there (Sasha for example) but then Greg got on well on TIgers initially but it didnt take long living on Sharks to make him 100% Shark so it may have been just as hard even for those who got on alright over on Tigers (just look at poor Adam) Shark blood seems to run deep.
Fran the only Tiger I have heard say something remotley homophobic is Tom (and he claimed meeting Xanthi had started to change his mind) so I dont think it is fair to band accusations of homophobia about so casually with out very good reason.
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Quote from: sharksno1 on May 4, 2009, 15:09
He is my favourite so I am completely bias
LOL!!
I don't know if I agree with Dan having it the hardest, (stop with the dirty thoughts, I can't think of any other way to phrase it), but for a few shipwreckers I think it might have been a bit tougher than what they were expecting. I think the person I would say has had the tougest time would be Bene? Hmm not sure. Didn't Dan say on his first week on being sharks he had considered nominating. I can't really remember this properly but I'm sure theres a clip on the website, please don't shoot me if I'm wrong. He also made good relationships with Silie by the sounds of things so I'm sure he was ok.
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That was his first week. I think he said if Lois and Marcus picked Tigers he was thinking about going to Tigers for a holiday because Sharks was so intense. It was ages ago and he said this week there was no part of him that wanted to be on Tigers so I think I would go with that rather than what he said weeks ago.
I think Bene has had a really hard time of it.
I felt really bad for Hollie last week and Liam made life really difficult for himself this week on Sharks. And I was genuinley gutted for Adam.
He said when Hollie nominated that it was worth the risk to the team to give an individual the experiance they wanted, so he worries more about the person than the tribe. And it is sad that he has had the experiance he wanted taken away from him, when he was so keen on making sure others had theirs.
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Oh sorry... yep that seems to be right!
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Quote from: Sirius Rose on May 4, 2009, 15:53
I don't know if I agree with Dan having it the hardest, (stop with the dirty thoughts, I can't think of any other way to phrase it)
You make me laugh Jess lol.
I think he had a hard time there at the end but I don't know if I'd say he had the hardest. Everyone who was handed a rough deal with swaps, steals, arguements etc all at one point seemed to be having the hardest time. I suppose it all depends on what the person in question can handle.
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Quote from: BlueBird on May 4, 2009, 17:32
You make me laugh Jess lol.
I think he had a hard time there at the end but I don't know if I'd say he had the hardest. Everyone who was handed a rough deal with swaps, steals, arguements etc all at one point seemed to be having the hardest time. I suppose it all depends on what the person in question can handle.
I think you make a very good point. I agree, i guess it all depends on how much the individual can take, and how sensitive they are as a person.
I love Dan, he represents everything a Shark should be. He's Fun, bubbly, outgoing, up for anything, and he also cares about other people's feelings. I feel so sorry for him being banished to Tiger Island. Lot's of new arrivals seem to be torn as to which Island to pick but i don't think there was any doubt in Dan's mind at the final beach party. The Tiger boys made absolutely no effort with Dan, he just didn't fit in on Tigers, he didn't fit with the boy's laddish, alpha male profile. It was clear he was a Shark the moment he got on the Island, he seemed naturally at home, having lots of fun and they suited his personality. Yes he did say if Lois and Markus chose Tigers he mght nominate but i'm sure that was partly due to bonding instantly with Lois. Dan is a very popular member of Sharks, and it looked like he got on well with them all. So naturally i was as devastated as the Sharks were when Dan got stolen forever to Tigers, it was cruel and really sad because we all knew how badly they had treated him the first time, but i don't know if he's had the hardest time. Of course it must be hard for him now, being on an Island he really doesn't gel with, but he seems to be the kind of person who can take it on the chin, dust himself off and just get on with making the best of a bad situation. Dan said himself there wasn't one part of him who wanted to be on Tigers Island, why would he when he formed such close friendships with Lois and Xanthi? But he's obviously quite a strong character who dealt with his situation much better than, say, Liam. I think despite not finishing on the Island that loves, and while, he's probably having a rough time on Tiger, others have had it tougher than Dan.
I also felt sorry for Adam, he seemed to take his banishment pretty badly. I don't think i realised how much of a Shark he was unitl he started crying at the beach party, and said he wanted to go home. I feel bad that the experiences he wanted to share with Shark Island were taken away from him, especially when he seeemed very concerned about giving others a great experience, individually rather than as a tribe. It showed that the stealing and banishments were tough even on those who appeared to have a great time on both Islands. But Adam also bounced back and just got on with things, even though he didn't want to be there.
Kudos to both Dan and Adam for dealing with the horrible situation so well. It looks from the outside that they are stronger people inside, mentally, than Liam who obviously was having a hard time. But i think Liam made it harder for himself, i'm sure the Sharks would've preferred Liam to join in rather than distance themselves.
I think Bene and Andrew have had a tougher time. At one point it seemed like the whole Island was having a go at Andrew. It must feel very lonely and isolated when most of your tribe are rounding on you. Also Bene had quite a bad time on Sharks, think she was releived to be going to Tigers, then had an even worse time there. I can understand Shark's frustration at Bene coming on thier Island and trying to tell them how to set up thier camp etc, but the way the Tigers behaved towards her was just plain nasty. They took out the anger they were felt towards Kevin on Bene, that to me was very mean. To make a new arrival cry isn't something to be proud of, and when Sonny and Markus clapped and cheered when they chose Sharks i wanted to slap them, how immature can you get. And then, just when Bene was finding her feet on Sharks she was stolen and had to stay on an Island which had her in tears for a whole week, with no support, and no-one from Sharks to keep her company.
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I agree with you Nadine, whole heartedly. I too think that Andrew and Bene have had a far worse time. During the episodes where things had gone from bad to worse for Andrew, he just looked so deflated and disheartened
I actually felt uncomfortable watching his exchange with Maz. I don't feel she was wrong, she reacted to what he said in the way in which she thought he meant it and when you're stuck 24/7 with people you normally wouldn't have chosen to spend that time with, things are gonna get heated. It's a given. He just looked terrible, my heart went out to him.
The Bene situ was just ridiculous. To treat a new arrival like that is horrible, especially considering she'd actually made the decision to come over to Tiger Island. I'm not even gonna discuss the cheering from Sonny and Markus. I refuse to dignify it with a response
I agree about Adam. I thought he was just someone that was along for the ride, and therefore wouldn't mind the steal but I was quite shocked at how emotional he became at the beach party. The tears and wanting to go home
So sad for him.
I also feel Holly got a bit of a rough deal. Fair enough, they felt she needed to know these things but did they have to gang up on her? Totally shocked at Hermione. I think she was just a bit put out because she found other friends, even for that short time, over on Sharks. Not cool. We were never shown any of the Tigers discussing Hollie's 'negative energy' before so I just found that whole thread utterly confusing if I'm honest.
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Quote from: Nadine on May 4, 2009, 19:48
Dan is a very popular member of Sharks, and it looked like he got on well with them all. So naturally i was as devastated as the Sharks were when Dan got stolen forever to Tigers, it was cruel and really sad because we all knew how badly they had treated him the first time, but i don't know if he's had the hardest time. Of course it must be hard for him now, being on an Island he really doesn't gel with, but he seems to be the kind of person who can take it on the chin, dust himself off and just get on with making the best of a bad situation.
- and it looked from this episode as if Matt was chatting away to Dan, and been forgiven for the steal, so that will be at least one Tiger glad to see Dan on their island.
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Dan seemed quite close to people like Jack and Della and got on well with Hollie and Silkie and he has Matt, Adam and now Doug.
Dan has that vibe about him where he can get on with anyone. He seemed very loved on sharks so I think he can fit in when he wants to, I just love the fact he never compromises or changes who he is. That’s what’s so good about Dan, even when things go against him or he’s stuck in a place he doesn’t want to be he gets on with it and still has this spark.
I totally agree that Liam isn’t fitting in with the sharks because he chooses not to, which is a shame as they’re coming to an end. I was surprised at how sad Adam was; he looked quite isolated as well so much so that he was thinking of leaving. I wonder how much the tigers made them feel welcome or if it was just a case of putting up with it and leaving them to their own devices. I was really impressed by Dan's attitude and how perceptive he was when Geri came.
I think Nadine made a great point about Bene having it harder. Dan might have had a rough ride on tigers but he sucked it up and dealt with it brilliantly whereas poor Bene was reduced to tears when she’d done nothing wrong. She was treated quite badly and had no one whereas Dan could just run into the arms of Xanthi and Lois at the beach party (who didn't notice that part lol).
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I felt really bad for Andrew the week he had a barney with the tribe and I am not his biggest fan. He did say it was only 4 people he had a problem with (maz, mark, nadejah and I think xanthi) But he seemed really run down.
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I agree with you Nadine, whole heartedly. I too think that Andrew and Bene have had a far worse time. During the episodes where things had gone from bad to worse for Andrew, he just looked so deflated and disheartened
I actually felt uncomfortable watching his exchange with Maz. I don't feel she was wrong, she reacted to what he said in the way in which she thought he meant it and when you're stuck 24/7 with people you normally wouldn't have chosen to spend that time with, things are gonna get heated. It's a given. He just looked terrible, my heart went out to him.
The Bene situ was just ridiculous. To treat a new arrival like that is horrible, especially considering she'd actually made the decision to come over to Tiger Island. I'm not even gonna discuss the cheering from Sonny and Markus. I refuse to dignify it with a response
I agree about Adam. I thought he was just someone that was along for the ride, and therefore wouldn't mind the steal but I was quite shocked at how emotional he became at the beach party. The tears and wanting to go home
So sad for him.
I also feel Holly got a bit of a rough deal. Fair enough, they felt she needed to know these things but did they have to gang up on her? Totally shocked at Hermione. I think she was just a bit put out because she found other friends, even for that short time, over on Sharks. Not cool. We were never shown any of the Tigers discussing Hollie's 'negative energy' before so I just found that whole thread utterly confusing if I'm honest.
I agree. I think Maz was well within her right to talk to Andrew about how he came across as being rude, even though he didn't mean it like that. As you say when you're stuck with people 24/7 it must be very difficult to always be nice and polite to eveyone, especiallly when they are not the type of people you would normally spend time with. But what i love about the Sharks is that they will discuss these matters and then move on, unlike the Tigers who seem to let things fester until they can't stand it any longer. It's just that Andrew looked so defeated, and so down that i felt sorry for him, even though i do think that at times he came across as rude. But he must be a valued member of thier tribe, cause they had an opportunity to banish him to Tigers and they didn't.
I'm glad we agree on the Bene situation, as you say it was ridiculous, and the less said about Sonny and Markus cheering the better!!!
I agree about Hollie, don't get me wrong i understand why Liam and particularly Hermoine were upset. I know it must have looked bad from where they were sitting, it must've looked like Hollie was basically ready to give up on the frienships she had made on Tigers for the sake of a boy she had only known for 5 mins. What i had a problem with was the way everyone ganged up on her, saying she bought a negative energy to the group. In my opinion the boys give out more negative energy than Hollie ever did. To round on her like that was just mean and uncalled for. Hollie is one of my faves on Tigers (wish she had stayed a Shark) and i never got the impression that she was a negative person. And if she was then why had it never been bought up before. I think there are a lot of tensions on Tiger Island and she was made an escapegoat.
Dan seems to be the kind of person who can get on with most people, but he has said himself that he didn't fit on Tigers (too camp for all that male testerone ha ha). However, i'm sure he'll be fine, he's sucked it up so far and i'd imagine he'll continue to do so. He gets on with Silkie, Hollie and Matt, and now he has Doug, as well as Adam to chat to.
Awwww it was so sweet when Dan ran into Xanthi and Lois' arms. i think they were crying at that point cause i heard Lois say something like 'Aww Dan'. Must have been really emotional for all of them, Adam and Liam included.
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